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Thursday, March 20th, 2003
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It's been a while since i last updated my journal. My life is back to a steady pace. I am having some friendship troubles in the past few weeks. Some of my friends started to distance themselves because of some minor issues. I started to realize more and more about who will be there when i fall into trouble. Which i guess is good.
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Too many things are happening these days. All of them create nothing but more stress. Moving, spending money like water, events, and other time consuming things are taking most of my day times away. On top of that, friends are having personal issues, relationship problem, and some friends are changing so dramatically, it is almost impossible to accept them anymore. I don't know if i like this kind of chaotic life. But i know until i find my pace and rhythm again, this is going to keep up for a little longer.
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Monday, February 24th, 2003
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All kind of problems arose in the past few days. Friends are having relationship problems. I mean big headaches. As a friend, I try my best to help. However, I am having my own problems as I am busy moving. And of course, budgeting problems... This has never been a problem before. But now it is, i guess it is good for me to watch what i spend on.
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Wednesday, February 19th, 2003
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I was tired from work and school. My brain was wandering all over the place. To give myself some focus, I decided to run a quick flashback on my currently relationship. It is great so far. As a matter of fact, too good it is kind of scary. The feeling is similiar to when a person discovers a big treasure chest and trying to knock himself on the head over and over to see if he is dreaming or not.
Tina is perfect for a goofball like me. However, i have a weird feeling that we still haven't created our own communication channel without any blockages in between. I really want to work on that. I believe it will take time.
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Tuesday, February 18th, 2003
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This valentines weekend has been extremely memorable. It is the first time I ever celebrated valentine's day with someone special. It is funny how none of my past relationships have lasted past valentine's day.
All the thanks to Elaine. I got my hook up to the suite at the Sherlton. The night with Tina was fun and romantic. The only thing missing in the room was a CD player so i could pump up some good music. Maybe next time...
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Thursday, February 6th, 2003
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Saw Chicago yesterday, very good movie. It really outperformed my expectations. It is a musical with a good plot, definitely worth watching.
Afterwards bunch of us went to the Intermezzo to chill. Wen talked more about his life, and I simply can not believe all that has happened to a 23 year old. His ups and downs are so dramatic that to me is nothing but amazement.
My relatives are having a big fuzz about my current relationship. I am only a month into the relationship with Tina, and it is already a war going on in China about it. I really don't like the way my Dad side of the family treat this matter. It is not bothering me big time, but it adds displeasures to my mind. What they don't understand is that I am looking for soulmate, not a perfect mate...
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Thursday, January 30th, 2003
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Today is one month after Tina and I became official. We had a long conversation last nite. We had talks about fun things we did, and why we enjoy each other's company so much. Over the past few days, I have been thinking about the big advantages of having a few girlfriends before one settles in with the best compatible one. By comparing and dating different girls, a guy can really find out more about himself, and what kind of girl he wants. I am not saying going out with different girls every week.
With Tina, I am able to be exactly who I am all the time. She is the first girl that actually likes my goofiness, and at the same time, knows exactly when I am serious, and when I am joking. That was my biggest problem with previous girls. I think being able to put the pressure down and just relax with each other is the key to a successful and happy relationship. So far, we haven't had an argument yet, which is good. (good for me. :-)
Beside Tina, my new house is ready for me to move in. Pretty excited about it. However, calculating all the expenses and budgeting the money isn't exactly the funnest thing in the world. Have to live with it i guess.
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This is a late journal insert, Tina and I have decided that 31st will be our anniversary because it is very easy to remember. pretty funny way of settling it. It's kewl with me cause i am so bad with dates.
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Thursday, January 23rd, 2003
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Past few weeks have been crazy. I constantly have a feeling that I am not getting enough sleep, but I am not tired at all. Tina and I see each other everyday, and it's been a lot of fun. People say that when you meet the right girl, you will just know. I dated around for past few years, and the feeling was never there. Sometimes I felt that I was forcing myself to go out with a girl just so that I won't be single. How crazy is that? but good thing is that nothing worked out before Tina, otherwise i might be stuck with someone i have no chemistry with.
Other than my fairly smooth sailing in a new relationship. I am back to my normal daily routine of working out at Wen's gym. May is counting down by days, and I need to build a decent body for the BEAAAACH.
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Sunday, January 5th, 2003
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It was a great day today. Tina called me up and wanted to have a picnic at lenox park with me. She was going to cook some stuff but the kitchen was messed up by her roommates. We stopped by kroger and got some food. She wanted to make it even more romantic by getting some wine, but we forgot that stores don't sell alcohol on sundays, which was a bummer but not a big deal.
Today was a nice, sunny and warm day. We talk a lot more today about our past and what we are looking for in a relationship. It looks like we are on the right track cause every conversation brings us closer and makes me feel even more comfortable with her.
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Saturday, January 4th, 2003
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Went to mall of georgia today. Tina and I finally had the talk about relationship and of course about "us". We are pretty much official after the talk. I feel a lot better and more relaxed after the talk. Before this, although we are holding hands, feeling really close to each other, but there is always an invisible barrier keeping us apart. Talking in a relationship is really important, especially these kind of conversations.
Saw "Hot chick" with tina, chris, and aaron. It was hilarious, but not an "A" movie.
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Friday, January 3rd, 2003
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Today is a slow moving friday. Chris is finally okay from his major diahrrea. I am dead tired from not able to sleep well last nite. Going to take a big nap right after work so i can rest well for tomorrow's ball game.
School is starting in a week, I am going to pick up some books to read before I have no time at all anymore.
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Wednesday, January 1st, 2003
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What a great start for a new year! I had the best new years eve ever. We all went to club Frequency, had a blast. However, the most important thing is that Tina and I completely bonded in the club. We danced, talked, kissed, and held each other. She was really beautiful last nite, and all I wanted to do is to hold her close to me and feel her heartbeat.
Life is great.
Minor disappointment is that Chris couldn't make it for the new years eve count down. He showed up half an hour late. But at least he showed up.
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Sunday, December 29th, 2002
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Yesterday was an eventful day. Tina met up with me at pearl milk tea. We went to Lenox Park for a short walk, then went to Filipp's 25th birthday party for a short cameo. After that, Tina, me, Bill, Tiffany, Chris, Toshi, Caroline, we all went to dinner at Jolie Kobe. Then we met up with David, Omar, and Maggie at D&B for a short drink and some arcade fun. B and I decided to take the girls clubbing after that. I basically had the best time clubbing & dancing with Tina. She is hella good at dancing. I held her close to me and danced with her. It was nice...
After hanging out with Tina for 2 weeks. I know I am ready to move onto a more personal level of relationship with her. But i plan to keep the moment spontaneous, so i am not going to think too much about it. (if i can help it. :)
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Sunday, December 22nd, 2002
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blah... what a boring saturday. Balling in the morning, tea shop in the afternoon. About to go to sleep... boooring.
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Friday, December 20th, 2002
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Tina called back! That's good news. She went skiing but she didn't ski cause one of her friend was sick and she had to take care of her. This girl is like my dream girl. Nice, sweet, cute, and now caring... wow... We had dinner with Eric and his gf, then went bowling with filipp and torben. It was definitely a fun night. I feel the vibe between us cause i have not had such an easy time to talk a girl. I am ready to start pursuing her, wish me luck.
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Thursday, December 19th, 2002
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Took a day off today, had lunch with Lloyd and Filipp. It is like high school all over again. Went with chris to see Lord of the Rings "the two towers" in the afternoon. I have to say that it is a lot better than the first episode. A lot of intense action. 3 hours didn't seem that long at all. After the movie, Peter called me, we then chilled at the starbucks. 3 different high school friends came back in one day. strange....
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Tuesday, December 17th, 2002
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Lloyd Labadie called me up today. I have not seen him for years. He is my high school best friend, and we have only seen each other twice since highschool graduation. It's great to hang out with him again. Talking to him brings back a lot of high school memories and it is fun to laugh for them again...
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Wen is leaving for taiwan today. Tony drove him to the airport. Although i have known Wen for only a month, we are already great friends. I know he has some crazy past (in my definition) by talking to him, but he is definitely a trustworthy friend. In Chinese words, he has a lot of Yi Chi. This type of friend is hard to come by, and I plan to treasure our friendship with best efforts.
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Met Tina again on sunday. We all went to Intermezzo to talk and chill.Although I didn't get to know her interest and stuff, I did get a pretty good grasp of what type of a person she is. She is intelligent, fairly down-to-earth, cool to talk to, and truthful. By watching wen and her joking around, I can tell that she will be fun to be around with.
Don't know what she thought about me. But it doesn't really matter, cause she will get a lot more chances to get to know me. :-)
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